Friday, December 07, 2012

Becoming mom

This post is primarily for people who are on the other side, wondering if they should have a baby and if anyone is going to tell them the truth. So here it is, all out in the open. My experiences of becoming mom.

Deciding to take the plunge
I was never a baby person. I am one of those who politely smile at new parents and never (even now) offer to hold their babies. I thought there might be a day when little booties and baby babble will tug at my heart strings. Never happened.
We had a perfect life together. We felt complete. There was really nothing missing. The main reason I wanted to have a baby was to know what it felt like. I did not want to miss out on an adventure, even if irreversible. Besides I always wanted to have a daughter.

Pregnancy
I had a lovely 9-10 months. Vomit free. Largely pain free. Grotesque-weight gain free. The getting up to pee in the night part sucked though. You should know that 3 min pee break clearly trumps feeding, changing and putting a baby to sleep so enjoy it while it lasts.

Saturday, June 30, 2012

Oh Morocco!

I realize I still have to blog about Lima and Buenos Aires but it's been 15 months and my memory is suspect. So here's my account of the lovely Morocco before that goes the same route!

I should really start with how we decided on Morocco. On our Peru trip last year we stayed in a nice place which had a world map shower curtain hanging in the bathroom. We came back home and promptly purchased one of our own. So one fine day we were talking about how Spain is one country we both haven't been to in Europe and also how we wanted to go to some place in Africa. One look at the curtain and we realized how close Morocco was to Spain. It was perfect- we are self proclaimed foodies and the Moroccan cuisine was the bait

We soon agreed that we wanted to spend most of our time in Morocco and I'm glad we did. All of one week. We opted to only go to Barcelona in Spain and not over complicate the trip. We needed a lead time of 3 weeks to get our visas but it was fairly smooth.

Casablanca was our first stop. Even though it has the international airport and is the closest to the capital (Rabat), there's not really a lot to see in Casablanca. So we planned just about 24 hours there. You get to the city by a short 40 min train ride from the airport. After checking into our hotel and taking a nap, we stepped out to explore the area. The place reminded us a lot of India, the streets, the buildings, the bargaining with the taxi driver. Our first halt - a bakery. It is here that I lost my heart to the most amazing almond croissant to have ever been made. This would be the first of more from the same shop and few more from around Morocco that never matched up. It was the perfect mix of flaky with the delicious not-too-sweet filling of mild almond paste. Sigh!

We wandered to the Mohammed V square which had a few stately buildings and a park. There was also a large fountain which were surrounded by families on their evening out and street vendors. Everything from henna application, colored baby chicks to shellfish soup and potato chips were on sale.    The mister did not think the potato chips would be hygenic enough for me. The Old post office there is a pretty sight with its tile inlays. From there we walked and landed near the medina.

The medina or old town is a large walled area that houses hundreds of families, shops and mosques. I think it's the most exciting part of any Moroccan city. The Casablanca Medina is not particularly noteworthy but it was our first medina experience. The wares for sale were more touristy than what we would see in Fez and the prices were much higher. We didn't spend too long there and set out to find the recommended place for dinner. The food there was fantastic but I think we got conned. We paid close to $40 for dinner and would be our priciest meal in the country. That's what happens when you order something like the seasonal fish which isn't on the menu!

Early next morning we stopped for a breakfast of- what else- almond croissant. We checked out a small market and took a taxi to see the one thing Casablanca can boast about- the Hassan II mosque by the sea. Now, this mosque is not historic but it is stunningly beautiful. It is partially built on water to adhere to a line in the Quran that talks about the seat of the God being on water. Tourists of all religions are allowed inside and the only request is that you are respectfully dressed and take your footwear off. You can go in if you are part of a guided tour and trust me, the tour was totally worth it. The pure marble, the intricate artwork and proximity to the sea. It's also a great place for a photo shoot with it's many majestic arches.After a quick lunch we checked out and headed to the train station. 4 hours to Fez.










Monday, September 05, 2011

Peru- the second edition: Machu Picchu and Lake Titicaca

Part 1of our story is here. The Ollantataytambo train station and the train surprised us. Clearly, Machu Picchu is the crown jewel of this country and everything related to it is of supreme quality. The Hiram Bingham express that runs this route, alongside River Urubamba is often touted to be one of the most luxurious and beautiful rides in the world. Of course, being on a budget, we opted to take the beauty and leave the luxury out, and took the cheaper version meant for backpackers called Expedition. And here's just how 'unfancy' that was- transparent roofs, neatly packed food kits and gorge-ous view.
The ride was a mere four hours and most of it was spent looking at the furious Urubamba gushing by the sides of the train. The anticipation of finally getting close to Machu Picchu is at such a peak that everything else preceding it seems like a mere ritual. The food was pretty good, I remember a small salad, a mini chicken quiche and some dessert.
We got off at Aguas Calientes, spanish for hot springs. This is the base town to get to MP and you can either hike up or take a bus to there. Mild panicking happened since there was no one from the hotel to pick us up. But of course, we only had to cross a small bridge to our hotel. Hotels here are not very fancy, and even though this one was not bad, I strongly suspect we were the only guests. It was tough to not see the whole town the same night but we tried. After buying our tickets for the next day, we handpicked a restaurant for dinner. The walls of this cozy place were lined with visiting cards of it's guests over the years. Every inch of wall space. As much as I thought it was a very cool idea, I'm guessing they haven't cleaned their walls or repainted in years. Ugh.
The next day we woke up at bright and early around 5 am, munched on some breakfast and saved some bananas for later. We were a little mad that daylight broke while we were waiting for the bus to get full. The ride up to the top is killer. As a perfectly matched, mountain-sick husband and wife couple, we avoided eye contact and mention of being pukey till we got there perfectly fine. You get into the ruins and realize, there's no point of coming so early, because the fog curtains are yet to reveal the hidden secrets. I'm lying, the fog covered ruins is one of the most mystical sights I have ever seen and the photos do no justice.
Although stunningly beautiful, Machu Picchu today is not how Hiram Bingham found it 150 years back. A lot of what we see was rebuilt. Some structures are authentic but it's difficult to pick them out. The ruins themselves are divided into different sections, the agricultural area, the temples and the residential areas. I will spare you the details lest the guides have nothing new to tell you when you get there. Llamas roam around lazily but according to our guide (get one), they are not usually found in these areas and are placed here merely for tourist delight. Of course, we asked him about Rajinikanth's Endhiran shoot which he clearly remembered. Except he thought it was Shah Rukh Khan (!). He pointed out the spots they shot in and we gave him instructions on how to find the video on youtube. After we did a round of the main sections, our guide told us where to go to get the standard postcard picture of the ruins. He then told us we could climb WaynaPicchu or Huayna Picchu, a steep peak that frames the ruins in the back, in 30 minutes. RIGHT. We huffed and puffed and climbed the steep hill in about twice of that time and later found out that we did pretty well for ourselves. The climb is really steep and scary at times. You have a steel rope to cling on to and gazillion feet of nothingness below. At the top were a group of people patiently waiting to take pictures the second the fog clears. It was 40 min before the fog cleared enough for us to get a decent snap and we gave up on asking people to take one of us in that precious window of a few seconds.
The hike down was only slightly scarier but we made it and after sauntering around and munching on our energy bars and bananas (trash saved in backpacks), took the climb up to the picture spot. I would say this is THE most beautiful view of the ruins but then again, is it because most pictures I've seen are from here? After taking enough pictures we sat down at the edge for an hour, taking in the views and stamping it down in our memory, thankful for our journeys to get there.
We took the bus back to Aguas Calientes around noon. I got a lovely 10$ massage from a petite smiling lady who made my back crack a few times. Lunch was Aji de Gallina (crumbled hen in a yellow sauce with peppers) at a fairly empty but nice place next door. We took the train back to Cuzco at around 4pm. Due to the rains, we had to complete half our journey by bus but everything was arranged by PeruRail and for a change, our hotel contact was there to pick us up. After some semi -Indian dinner that I was too woozy to eat, heads hit pillows for the night. Our hostel, Los ninos is a charming old place that was built to sustain projects related to children. Though it was slightly more expensive that other places i researched I thought this would be a great way to give back. The building has a courtyard in the centre and 2 floors of rooms all around. The place is sparsely but beautifully decorated with neat and cute bathrooms (don't ask me how bathrooms can be cute, they can). I wish we had more time to spend there but the next morning, we had a taxi ready to take us to our bus. Our next destination was Puno and Lake Titicaca. There are more expensive luxurious ways of getting there from Cusco but we picked a bus ride. 8 hours, only made possible by mountain sickness tablets in our pockets. Now, the ride itself includes 4 stops and guided tours around attractions on the way. Also included is a buffet lunch, snacks and drinks. Since we were ascending to an altitude of 4000m, the bus was stocked with oxygen cylinders in case we felt altitude sickness. As nervous I was, the trip was pretty good. The motion sickness tablets knocked me out for the first few hours of the ride and I was up for each of the stops. We stopped at an old cathedral, some more ruins near a market, a museum and La Raya, the highest point. At La Raya I even got to pose with a cute little girl in full Peruvian gear, dragging along a tiny llama. She is probably the tiniest most entrepreneurial kid I've seen. She would wander into the picture frames of the tourists and collect money for it.
Lunch beat all our expectations. The food was good and the company, great. At our table was a restaurant owner from Brazil and other varied travelers. We reached Puno around 5 that evening and our hostel guy was there to pick us up. Puno is filled with unfinished houses because a finished house attracts a tax. So every house leaves something unfinished to claim the exemption.
Our hostel was the top floor of a house split into 5 rooms with attached bathrooms. Two friendly brothers ran the place and arranged our trip to Lake Titicaca the next day. We got their recommendation on where to eat and set out to explore. The fried chicken that was recommended was good, but very salty. For being small, Puno is pretty crowded but for the most part it didn't seem that touristy. Next morning, we headed to our boat. Lake Titicaca is the highest navigable lake in the world and is jointly owned by Bolivia and Peru. This lake had a lot of floating islands, made of reeds, that natives lived on. These are the biggest attractions in this area. While they could have moved on to shore since there is no more danger of spanish conquest, they prefer to live on water. Their income comes from tourism, which is somewhat awkward for a tourist. On one hand, you feel bad that they are tolerating you for their livelihood but then on the other, maybe it is better than being exploited and not getting anything out of it. Some packages to the islands even involve staying with the residents for a couple of nights.
Our guide was Vladimir and he let us know that each island is home to one family. The islands have schools and hospitals and groups of islands takes turns allowing tourists for the day. I guess that way they can actually get some peaceful time without cameras. As our boat drew closer to these magical islands, we saw ladies in colorful garb inviting us to visit them. It was all such a new experience.
The islands are very spongy, it feels somewhat like walking on a raft over water, slightly steadier. Vladimir had warned us about stepping on the reeds at the edges since they could give away. A group of residents proceeded to show us how they built the islands, their homes and their boats, all with the reeds. They could even eat the insides of them. they had props and miniature models of the items, clearly this was a very well rehearsed deal. After that, we walked around the island, it had four small homes, a cooking area and a nursery for small kids (!). The homes were tiny, with reed beds and little TVs. We got to see a lot of guinea pigs but lest you go awww, these are delicacies and was probably going to be dinner for them. One of the ladies offered to put some Peruvian clothes on me and I was shutter-delighted. In return for their kindness I bought some jewelry and handicraft from their mini shop. Vladimir had told us that we could also give back by taking the reed boats for a ride for 10 Soles and we all opted for it. These reed boats are simply stunning. The fronts are designed to look like dragons and it felt like being in a movie set. The ladies sang us songs as they bid us goodbye, including, from what I was told, a very popular Peruvian movie song.
From there we went on the reed boat to another floating island where we received a similar welcome and were led directly to the arts stalls. The lake itself is stunning and the experience of the floating islands is one for the travel books. After a great lunch with some excellent fish, we said goodbye to Puno. Next stop was Lima. More food, more adventures and ceviche. Enough for a Part III.
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